Saturday, November 13, 2010

Cruel Intentions??

Yesterday my soon to be ex called me and asked me if I wanted to have sex with him.

Yes, you read that right. He has some HUGE cajones on him to try that shit with me after all he's put me through lately. I guess he thinks I'm that desperate and lonely. Umm, no. I have absolutely no desire be anywhere near him any time soon. I guess I didn't make that clear enough. Maybe I was too nice, should I have chased him out of the house with a machete? a hot pot of grits or masa? How do you make an ex truly an ex? Any suggestions??



  1. pal carajo con ese malandro! lol
    stay strong!

  2. Wow Monica. I want to start off by sending you a big virtual hug. ::HUG!::

    Men can become so base when situations like this unfold. He misses you on a deeper level but he doesn't want to see it as that. And prefers instead to lower what he misses about you to something as basic as sex. You are his wife. Not some qualquiera from down the block. How dare he lower you to that status in his mind firstly and then to even open his mouth and verbalize it by asking you the question. You did the right thing to refuse him. You have dignity and although he may have taken a lot of your heart with him when he left -- your dignity wasn't a part of that. Stand strong in that. Demand more. Either he wants you or he doesn't. And pray on it. God can heal your heart. All those missing pieces can be put back together again. Put it in God's hands and submit to His perfect will. God can change him and make him the man you've been longing for, I know firsthand. Or if it's not part of God's will for you two to be together, it just won't work.

    In the mean time, keep focusing on the Lord, you and your daughter. I'm praying for you Monica. Sending hugs and blessings your way. Your friend, Aimee

  3. Gracias Aimee. Your words are so true and powerful. He doesn't love me, he just wants to use me. He wants to satisfy his own needs and leave me sad and alone again. No, never again.

    God has a better plan for me. I have more respect for myself, plus I know mi hija is watching me. I want to set a good example for her and her future relationships.

  4. I hate flying but somehow you make it sound better,, turbulence and all.. Glad yo had a great Thanksgiving@!