Sunday, August 23, 2015

Life After Ashley Madison

You found your husband or boyfriend on Ashley Madison. What happens now...

Please sit down and take a deep breath.

Signing up for AM was free. He might have been curious. If that's it calmly have a talk with him in the next couple of days.

If there are credit card transactions, research how many times his card was used. Divide by two because there are two entries for each transaction. Make sure the credit card information and billing address are correct.

If there are only a few there still might not be a reason to worry. Those are probably communication charges. Maybe a little fantasy talk? Calmly have a talk with him tomorrow.

If there are several transactions with fees over $1000, he has paid for the "guaranteed affair" package. If you have children take them to a relatives home and speak to him at once.

You can survive this. Depending on the situation you may have to have STD/HIV testing. You may want a legal separation or even a divorce. Make sure you have a good lawyer. It will be expensive.

You may decide to forgive him. If you do, do not share details of the ordeal with everyone. This is a private moment. Sometimes others can do more harm than good. Be careful if you decide to share your marital issues with anyone but your spouse or a trusted counselor.

True Story on Fusion

Take care,

Wednesday, August 19, 2015

#WeddingWednesday - Themed Weddings

Scandal Themed Wedding | Bridal Musings Wedding Blog -

Today is #WeddingWednesday on Twitter and my focus is on the concept of a themed wedding. The photograph is from a themed Bridal Musings shoot based on the tv show "Scandal".


Wednesday, August 12, 2015

#WeddingWednesday - Wedding Stationery Suite

Photograph via Magnolia Rouge

White green and dark accents flowers. Featured in Magnolia Rouge Magazine Issue 9. Judy Pak Chung Ph... -

Today is #WeddingWednesday and my focus is wedding stationery. The wedding invitation is your guests first peek at your wedding.


Wednesday, August 5, 2015

#WeddingWednesday - Tablescapes

Photograph via Snippet & Ink

Today is #WeddingWednesday and my focus is on tablescapes. There are hundreds of amazingly stunning examples on my Pinterest account.


Sunday, August 2, 2015

Making Money Online

The Internet is an interesting place. You can literally find anything online, including money making opportunities. Being on medical leave from my job has made me get creative in order to afford medication and groceries. If you do your research and have a high speed Internet connection, you'll be able to make a bit of money online.

I've found many opportunities on a Reddit board titled Beermoney. Reddit has thousands of daily readers who find information online. I found the Beermoney board while reading posts on the Frugal one. I thought the title was unique because I remember the constant search for beer money in college. If you take the time and read through the posts, you will definitely find a way to make a few dollars online. This is not a way to become a millionaire. Always be sure to do your research before signing up for anything.

I've been a fan of taking surveys since I was little. Every time we ate out I completed a comment card. I still like to express my opinion so participating in online survey groups seemed natural to me. Right now my favorite websites are Prize Rebel (referral link thanks) and CashCrate. Both of these sites have hundreds of surveys about all different things. It takes awhile to complete certain survey questions, so patience is key. It's crucial to check out any survey company or website before giving your personal information.

Between the three websites I've mentioned, you should be able to make some money online. If you know of any other reputable sites please feel free to comment below. Also if you have any questions about any of the places I've mentioned I'll be happy to try and answer them :). Yo hablo español.